This morning, I let Kerfuffle fly free. He went peacefully with a belly full of his favorite foods and a packet of pureed chicken that gave him a last shot of joy before he left us. Over the past few weeks, his body began failing in every possible way, maybe from cancer, and maybe as a cruel coincidence. He had trouble picking up and swallowing food, and then he had trouble walking, and he seemed to be in pain. When a test showed his cancer was back, high-dose steroids gave us one magical day to go for a good walk, try to chew a bully stick, and feast on everything I could think of to give him.
We found each other when I was adrift and he was heartbroken about being surrendered to the shelter. I couldn’t figure out how to make him happy. In the process of trying, we found agility, which he loved. Just as he and I were gaining confidence, his disastrous structure started catching up with him. My biggest regret with him was not realizing his balkiness in the ring was from pain and listening to people who said he was taking advantage of me. (Please don’t do the same with your dogs – I hear people say it all the time.) His agility career ended on a bad teeter landing in the middle of a run, but it took me too long to figure it out. He never ran as well again, in class or competition.
He taught me how to train a dog and turned me into a dog nerd, along the way going from a reactive dog with a red label on his veterinary file to an uncomplaining cancer patient who in pre-covid days charmed the staff with his tricks and his tolerance for the many procedures he endured. There are so many things I want to remember about him—his love of wearing sweaters, his penchant for making every picture of him look like a hostage photo, his loathing of wet grass, how his trot and my walk fit so perfectly together, how he stood midway up the stairs so when we were at eye level he could push his forehead into mine, his habit of flopping on my chest in the morning to try to keep me in bed longer, how much he loved to be groomed, his soulful chocolate-pie eyes, his endless patience and stoicism—so don’t feel you need to read it all. Just this: Kerfuffle was my heart.
He didn’t have much interest in toys, but loved ripping up Kleenex, cardboard, and everything paper. He especially coveted used napkins. He adored doing tricks for kids and having toddlers awkwardly pat him on the back. When I got him, someone had clearly trained him to stand on his hind legs and waltz around the dining table while people ate dinner. He gave up quickly when I ignored him, but it was a trick he did almost his whole life. We added many to his repertoire.
He hated being left out. In the middle of conversations, or if he could see me from his crate, he barked incessantly. If I tossed cookies to him when I left in the morning, he waited to eat them until I returned. He was never away from me unless he had stolen something, he often slept in my arms like a teddy bear, and once, I accidentally left the car door open at agility class, and he came looking for me, waiting uncomplainingly by the door of the building until I appeared. On walks, he felt compelled to greet everyone he saw sitting on steps and was slightly put out if they were people who didn’t want to be interrupted.
Kerfuffle’s life’s work, though, was loving his person. At first, he was selective, but as he got older, he spread love to whomever he met, leaning on strangers and even choosing a few other people for his signature head-on-chest hug, captured in Ann Hereford’s fantastic picture of us. The best moment of the day was coming in the door (sometimes after just a few minutes) and having him swoop in to hug me. Every time, he stuck his muzzle under my chin, sniffing deeply and then wagging his tail once he’d filled himself with my scent.
Inside Kerfuffle, a gentle soul coexisted with a ninja fighter. He survived a dog attack, mystery toxic substance, devastating freak hepatitis infection and gallbladder surgery, severe esophagitis, aspiration pneumonia, chemotherapy side effects, endoscopy to retrieve swallowed plastic, heart valve disease, and twenty-six months, three weeks, and three days with lymphoma. Fuff, you are the best dog and I am your Adoring Person, always, and I will miss you every single day of my life.
Kerfuffle OA OF NAJ TKA CGC CL-4 PKD-N
Cancer-Fighting Ninja and Champion Snuggler of the World
March 2, 2011 – April 23, 2021